My fiance doesnt compare to my ex how do I cope?

My fiance is wonderful and I love him so much. We have a fantastic relationship. There are some things that I was spoiled with from my ex that make me feel disappointed because my fiance doesnt do them. My ex was obsessed with me.. A little too much and Im so much happier not being with him. But he used to always mage me kiss me and do romantic things like cut my food or set up a bath for me. He was very ual and sensual. He always told me how beautiful I was ext. My fiance doesnt like to kiss much or mage me and stare into my eyes ext. He is the one who wants all that attention. I wish I could get over it. Is thus common?